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Evolution of a Mother


Mother Bear

Yes, parenthood changes everything. But parenthood also changes with each baby. Here are some of the ways having a second and third child differs from having your first:  

Your Clothes  
1st baby: You begin wearing maternity clothes as soon as your OB/GYN confirms your pregnancy.
2nd baby: You wear your regular clothes for as long as possible.
3rd baby: Your maternity clothes are your regular clothes.

The Baby's Name 
1st baby : You pore over baby-name books and practice pronouncing and writing combinations of all your favorites.
2nd baby : Someone has to name their kid after your great-aunt Mavis, right? It might as well be you.
3rd baby : You open a name book, close your eyes, and see where your finger falls. Bimaldo? Perfect!  

Preparing for the Birth  
1st baby : You practice our breathing religiously.
2nd baby : You don't bother practicing because you remember that last time, breathing didn't do a thing.
3rd baby : You ask for an epidural in your 8th month.   

The Layette  
1st baby : You pre-wash your newborn's clothes, color-coordinate them, and fold them neatly in the baby's little bureau.
2nd baby : You check to make sure that the clothes are clean and discard only the ones with the darkest stains.
3rd baby : Boys can wear pink, can't they?   

1st baby : At the first sign of distress--a whimper, a frown--you pick up the baby.
2nd baby : You pick the baby up when her wails threaten to wake your firstborn.
3rd baby : You teach your 3-year-old how to rewind the mechanical swing.   

1st baby : You take your infant to Baby Gymnastics, Baby Swing, and Baby Story Hour.
2nd baby : You take your infant to Baby Gymnastics.
3rd baby : You take your infant to the supermarket and the dry cleaner.   

Going Out  
1st baby : The first time you leave your baby with a sitter, you call home 5 times.
2nd baby : Just before you walk out the door, you remember to leave a number where you can be reached.
3rd baby : You leave instructions for the sitter to call only if she sees blood.   

At Home  
1st baby : You spend a good bit of every day just gazing at the baby.
2nd baby : You spend a bit of every day watching to be sure your older child isn't squeezing, poking, or hitting the baby.
3rd baby : You spend a little bit of every day hiding from the children.